Tantra U

Most relationships are build on fulfilling needs that are rooted in incomplete attachment experiences from our early childhood. These underlying dynamics keep recreating paradigms that touch our very core woundings around connection and lead to disconnection from the present moment reality and projection of our internal fragments onto our partners.
Attachment patterns as a part of our survival system are closely related to developmental trauma and the inner fragmentation it leaves us with. Here embodiment as the gateway into the present moment can create a profound experience of safety within the body that is the foundation to explore our inner parts, build the capacity to feel what was too much to be felt, and create a compassionate relationship between the fragmented parts within, taking back that inner wounded child and giving it attunement and safety.
Having awareness of these dynamics in a relationship and access to somatic resources allows us to detach from the identification with the wounded parts and create the possibility of relating in the present moment, through authenticity and vulnerability. This way our relationships can become powerful pathways towards inner growth instead of an endless loop of disappointment and disconnection, and we can meet each other from a place of wholeness and inner completeness, truly meeting each other’s heart and soul.